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Wit,

I enjoyed reading your story. Here's my take - many latinas are just sooooo IMMATURE. Seriously, I think you were just being TOO NICE and she was looking to take advantage of the situation.

I'll share one of my own experiences... I brought a girl I've been seeing to the beach. We made a pit stop in Jaco on the way to Manuel Antonio. We took a walk down the beach and made our way to the Copa. I ordered drinks at the pool bar. We got in and were sitting at the pool bar. A little context - this girl is 24 and has only been to the beach 3 times her entire life. So, you'd think she would be having a blast. Guess what??? She started saying "Que aburrido!!!". After maybe her forth complaint, I told her that I would buy her a bus ticket back to San Jose. She looked suprised. I told her that if I hear one more complaint, I'm walking straight to the bus office and sending you home. Period. I told her listen - I'm going to have a good time with or without you. I'm not going to put up with any phucking complaints. There are LOTS of women in this world that don't complain. She changed her whole attitude immediately and started smiling and laughing again. WTF!!!!

Latinas can just be rude. They have no sense of "If things aren't perfect, just suck it up and make the best of it." They learn survival from their mummies, not etiquette. I found out later, that she expected me to arrange horse back rides on the beach. Well, phuck it all. Am I supposed to read her mind? Ahhh wait... this was just her spin on why she was a dud for about half a day on the beach.

When we got to MA, she didn't like the hotel because there was no cable TV. I asked her why the hell we need cable TV when we are at a jungle/beach resort. We will only be in the room when we sleep and phuck. Period. She frowned and looked around and started with the "que aburrido" bullshit again. I told her I was going to talk to the front desk and left. Instead, I walked down to the beach by myself and ditched her.

Again, this fixed it and she was bright-eyed and bushy tailed when I returned an hour later.

In the end, when I dropped her off in SJ, she never once said "thank you" for anything. In fact, I never heard her once say thank you the entire trip.

A week later, we went out to dinner and I confronted her on the "thank you" issue. She gave me a crazy stare, eye to eye, for a LONG time before answering. She finally answered, "yes, I said thank you in SJ, you just don't remember." I remember exactly what she said in SJ. She walked out of the car and said "Me piensa," which is a far cry from thank you. Her "Me piensa" was funny twist, because the only thing I thought about afterwards was her complaining and lack of gratitude and that I'd never think of taking her to the beach again. "si claro... te pienso mucho. Nunca volvemos ir a la playa juntos. Ciao."

NEEXXXXTTTT!!!! Thank gawd there is variety and volume down there.

Isn't life just a grand adventure??? I'm serious.

On one hand, I can have a gringa in the US who is totally polite, educated, cultural, fun and self supported by way of a good-paying job. The downside - she is bad in bed. I need to marry her. Inevitiably we will have Ch*ldren. She will not let me have fun. She will likely divorce me and break me financially.


On the other hand, I can have a latina in her native country. She is rude, un-educated, completely un-cultured beyond her own world, and completely dependent on me monetarily. She is ridiculous in bed and her blowjob crosses my eyes. I don't need to marry her. I don't want her K*ds, but she may try to get knocked-up. She LETS me have fun and even welcomes a second chica in bed on occaison. She can only divorce me, if I marry her. She isn't going to intentionally break me financially, but she begs for money everyday.

I've been staring at the two hands for the last two years. I'm still TOTALLY into latinas. Despite their quirks and annoyances, there is just a LOT of upside. I'm also one of the few people in my peer group in the US who is not divorced or in a miserably boring marriage. My buddies here live through me vicariously. Pura Vida!!!! They beg for my stories and are totally envious.

To coin a phrase from Alcoholics Anonymous - Keep coming back. It works if you work it. Let me paraphrase this - work it - but first learn the game.

Man... I'm hammered again. Can I have another drink?

On one hand, I can have a gringa in the US who is totally polite, educated, cultural, fun and self supported by way of a good-paying job. The downside - she is bad in bed. I need to marry her. Inevitiably we will have Ch*ldren. She will not let me have fun. She will likely divorce me and break me financially.


On the other hand, I can have a latina in her native country. She is rude, un-educated, completely un-cultured beyond her own world, and completely dependent on me monetarily. She is ridiculous in bed and her blowjob crosses my eyes. I don't need to marry her. I don't want her K*ds, but she may try to get knocked-up. She LETS me have fun and even welcomes a second chica in bed on occaison. She can only divorce me, if I marry her. She isn't going to intentionally break me financially, but she begs for money everyday.

I've been staring at the two hands for the last two years. I'm still TOTALLY into latinas. Despite their quirks and annoyances, there is just a LOT of upside. I'm also one of the few people in my peer group in the US who is not divorced or in a miserably boring marriage. My buddies here live through me vicariously. Pura Vida!!!! They beg for my stories and are totally envious.

Chi, you should thank the many gringos before you who trained the Latina you just described, a normal Latina would pretty much be like the gringa![/b][/size]

The girl I'm seeing in CR has never been with a gringo before. So, I guess I need to break her in?

I disagree. I've lived in CR for about 6 months and maybe met one girl in CR who resembles a gringa. Unfortunately she is taken. She has a college education and works for a pharmacuetical company. Perhaps you are talking about latinas in america?

Chi, what I meant was that a normal Latina, like in non-puta, is pretty much like a normal, non-puta Gringa when it comes to sex. A normal Latina won't give you a blowjob, they'd enjoy DATY, but be reluctant to kiss you if you do it, and pretty much forget about any kinky sex.
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